{"product_id":"ten-questions-before-you-book-the-venue","title":"Ten Questions Before You Book the Venue — A Free Guide for Engaged Couples","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eThe wedding is the easy part. Venues, dates, and flowers are logistics, and logistics have vendors.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eWhat has no vendor is the set of questions underneath — who decides, who pays, what that buys, whose family gets a say, and what the two of you actually want but haven't said out loud yet.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThese are the ten that get expensive if you skip them. Not emotionally expensive — literally expensive. A guest list argument after the invitations are printed costs money. A disagreement about a parent's contribution after the check clears costs more. Every one of these is cheapest right now, before anything is booked.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eWhat's inside\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eTen questions, one per page. Each has a short clinical note on why it matters, an example of a vague answer next to a specific one, and side-by-side writing space so both partners answer separately before comparing.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003col\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhat is this day actually for?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhat can we spend without help, and without debt?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWho is contributing, and what do they believe it buys?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHow many people, and who decides who is on the list?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhich of us handles which family?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhat is already decided and not being reopened?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHow are we handling divorced, estranged, or absent parents?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhat are we each dreading, and have we said it out loud?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhat does this budget cost us in year one?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhat are we not talking about?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ol\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIt closes with a page on what to do when a question opens a real disagreement — how to tell a difference from a problem from something larger — and a page on when a boundary wouldn't be safe to set at all, with confidential resources.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eWho wrote it\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eA board-certified Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner (MSN, APRN, PMHNP-BC). Secular and inclusive throughout — no faith requirement, no assumed gender roles, no assumptions about your family structure or marital history.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eSpecs\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eFormat:\u003c\/strong\u003e PDF (US Letter, 8.5 × 11 in) · \u003cstrong\u003ePages:\u003c\/strong\u003e 15 · \u003cstrong\u003ePrice:\u003c\/strong\u003e Free · \u003cstrong\u003eDelivery:\u003c\/strong\u003e Instant download · \u003cstrong\u003ePrinting:\u003c\/strong\u003e Unlimited copies\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003ePlease share it with anyone who needs it. That's what it's for.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003ePlease read\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThis is educational material. It is not therapy, legal advice, or financial advice, and downloading it does not create a clinical relationship. It takes about an hour to work through together.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"The Part They Don't Teach","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":45943135338703,"sku":null,"price":0.0,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0657\/0590\/2287\/files\/ten-questions-cover-FROM-PDF-1700x2200.png?v=1788059582","url":"https:\/\/pdfnestguide.com\/products\/ten-questions-before-you-book-the-venue","provider":"The Part They Don't Teach","version":"1.0","type":"link"}